Even though we can all do it ourselves (unless you’ve lost your arms, in which case, I’m sorry), handjobs are fucking awesome! However, unless you’re in bed with a transsexual who knows her way around a love shaft just as well as you do, it’s not uncommon to meet a girl who is fucking clueless when it comes to giving a guy a nice tug.
In my experience, I’ve found that the worst handjobs I’ve had have been from inexperienced girls between 18 and 25, whereas the best and most unforgettable HJs I’ve had have come from the well-manicured hands of MILFs over forty. After all, the latter type of woman is packing decades of sexual experience that younger women simply can’t match.
But I get it; not all guys are into MILFs, and some of you want those between 18 and 25. However, these girls can learn a thing or two, so I decided to ask some of my favourite jerking MILFs about their top tips for giving a man a HJ he’ll never forget for as long as he lives. So grab your baby oil and a lot of tissues because shit is about to get real!
Guess What? A Good Handjob Starts With Your Hands!
Before we get into the messy and fun stuff, we need to start with the tools of the trade. If you have rough hands, your handjob will also be rough. This is best avoided unless you’re with a guy who likes CBT.
So, before giving a guy a handjob, always keep your hands clean and moisturised. Trim your nails, and if you have any callouses, use a pumice stone to remove them.
Get Nasty With His Precum
Precum is like a little taster that encourages you to put your all into a HJ or BJ as it teases you about that white, sticky reward at the end. If you’re making a guy leak with precum, you’re already doing a good job. But you can do better!
Scoop up his precum with your finger and seductively play with it before sucking your fingers clean. You can also use it as lube to play with our pussy as you jerk off your man. Remember, more foreplay means more precum, so take things slow and gradually build up to make that dick leak!
Whatever You Do, Don’t Forget His Balls!
The biggest mistake a girl can make when giving a guy a handjob is neglecting his balls. Unless your man doesn’t like having his balls played with, they’re the perfect way to add an extra edge of pleasure to a HJ.
You have two hands, right? Use one on your man’s cock and the other on his balls. There are many ways to play with a ballsack, and here are some favourites I once saw in a MILF’s live cam handjob session!
Fondling a pair of balls – This is the easiest way to play with a pair of balls and is perfect for newbies. Hold the balls in your hands and play with them using your fingers. Be light and gentle for maximum effect, and play with a pair of bouncy balls beforehand to practice.
Squeezing the ballsack – Feeling dominant? You can also squeeze your man’s balls to give the handjob some intensity. However, if you’re inexperienced, it’s crucial to be careful and not squeeze too hard. You don’t want to hurt him, after all.
Pulling on his balls – Like the last method, you must be careful here, as overdoing it can hurt a man. Lightly grip the balls and pull them towards you. This is a great method to use just as a guy is approaching orgasm and can seriously quadruple the power he feels as he cums.
Switch it up With Your Finger Technique
A good handjob will keep a guy on his toes, so it’s always a good idea to use different methods of jerking off. This particular technique, called “the ring”, is one I learned from one of the live cam models specialising in JOI.
“The ring” is easy; it just requires you to pair your index finger with your thumb and make a circle shape. In the middle of this circle is, ideally, a man’s throbbing cock. Using your two fingers, stroke his shaft up and down, giving him an intense and concentrated sensation that is a great alternative to the traditional stroking he’s probably used to.
Alternate Your Speeds
There’s no speed limit to a handjob, and switching up the pace at which you jerk your lover will seriously keep things spicy. From slow and sensual to fast and dominant, see how much you can push the dick in your hands by trying out different speeds.
Does he Really Deserve to Cum Yet?
Edging is a massively popular kink amongst guys these days, so you can try bringing your lover to the point of orgasm and then stopping at the last moment to deny and tease him. This often results in some explosive, cum-splattered orgasms too.
Introduce Him to the Pleasures of a Prostate Orgasm
Increasingly, more guys are ditching the taboos of a prostate orgasm and the insanely intense orgasms some anal play can deliver. Try to convince your man to try it out, slide a finger into his butt, look for that prostate, and watch how hard his dick explodes!
Talk Dirty
Unless you’re jerking him off in a library, always try to include some dirty talk as you jerk off a guy. Nobody likes awkward silences, and many men love indulging in filthy verbal play as a woman strokes their cock. There are tonnes of dirty talk resources to learn from online, too!
Handjobs Have Never Been so Fun!
Traditionally seen as the boring younger brother of the blowjob, handjobs can be an immense sexual experience by implementing this array of tips from HJ-loving MILFs! If you’re looking for more tips, why not check out a live sex cam site like PDCams and see the array of live handjobs taking place?
